Wed, 4 March 2020
Jordan Harbinger, once referred to as “The Larry King of podcasting,” is a Wall Street lawyer turned talk show host, social dynamics expert, and entrepreneur.
After hosting a top 50 iTunes podcast for over a decade that enjoyed nearly four million downloads a month at its zenith, Jordan has embarked on a new adventure: The Jordan Harbinger Show, where he deconstructs the playbooks of the most successful people on earth and shares their strategies, perspectives, and insights with the rest of us.
Jordan’s business sense, extensive knowledge of the industry, and contemporary approach to teaching make him one of the best and most sought-after coaches in the world.
Favorite Success Quote
“Fortune favors the bold” ~Latin Proverb
1. Find the Silver Lining
It’s an inevitability of life.
Things will not go your way. Partners will leave you. Employees will steal from you. Friends will betray you.
This isn’t a pessimistic outlook on life, it’s simply the reality of the world we live in.
As such, the question is not if these events will happen but how you will respond when they do.
In every negative situation, every layoff, divorce, breakup, and failure, you have one of two choices.
You can throw yourself a pity party, whine, moan, and cry that your life isn’t where you want it to be. Or you can find the silver lining and move forward with your life.
Every door that closes opens up a new one. Every failed endeavor frees up your time and resources to pursue a new one. Everything that you currently think sucks has a silver lining… If you’re willing to look for it.
Learn to make the best of any situation and use adversity to your advantage and you will become unstoppable in your business, relationships, and life.
2. Dig the Well Before You’re Thirsty
There is an old proverb that states, “Dig the well before you are thirsty”.
And truer words have yet to be spoken.
In every area of life, you must learn to cultivate a proactive attitude instead of a reactive one.
In your finances, set aside money each month and invest in your future so that when the unexpected happens, you are prepared.
In your relationship, create your own social circle and build your own life so that, even if your partner leaves you, you aren’t left out in the cold.
In your business and career, learn to cultivate powerful relationships with people when you have no agenda so that, if and when something happens (like a layoff or bankruptcy) you have a network of friends who will come to your aid and support you.
Take preemptive action in your life to avoid and recover from tragedies before they happen.
As I’ve already said, it’s not a matter of if something bad will happen, it’s a matter of when.
Plan for these crises and prepare for them before you need to.
Your future self will thank you.
3. Don’t Wait on Other People
Whether it’s a business partner, spouse, or friend you can never allow your momentum in life to be dictated by another person.
Don’t wait for someone else to get on board with your mission and vision.
Simply take action and move forward.
If your business partner or significant other is dragging their feet and screwing around with regards to your vision and important goals, fine. Take action without them and move forward on your own.
You can spend years or even decades waiting for someone else to come through, all the while missing opportunities and possibilities in your own life.
Don’t let this happen to you…
Chart your own path and move forward whether the people around you are on board or not.
4. Don’t Sacrifice Success for Other People’s Comfort
In many relationships, people will avoid having difficult conversations with their partner because they don’t want to hurt the other person.
A wife might avoid talking to her alcoholic husband about his drinking problem because she doesn’t want to upset him.
A man might avoid talking to his girlfriend about her lackluster work ethic and spending problem because he doesn’t want to hurt her feelings.
A business partner might avoid calling his team out for laziness because he doesn’t want to be seen as overly critical or negative.
In all of these situations, the uncomfortable conversation is necessary.
Unless you are willing to step up, make other people uncomfortable, and call them out on their b.s., they will never change.
You will never move forward in life and eventually, the relationship will implode.
Be willing to take a stand for yourself and let other people know when they’ve violated a boundary or acted in a manner that is unacceptable.
Otherwise, you will live in a constant fairytale and fail to achieve the life you want.
5. Do the Things Today that Your Future Self Will Thank You For
Every day, you have a choice.
You can either choose to live for the moment or the future.
While it’s all fine and dandy to be present, it’s even more important that you are acting in a way today that your future self will thank you for.
What would make your future self-smile?
Eating that piece of cake or eating a salad?
Skipping the gym because you’re tired or staying commited to your training?
Talking to that cute guy/girl or letting fear hold you back from the relationships you want?
Working hard on your side hustle or goofing off with YouTube and video games?
You have a choice to create the life that you want.
The only question is, “What choice are you going to make?”
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